Shine Me Brite

  It was the first time I'd ever heard those words... . . . “ I'm fat?” ‘I'm fat?’ ‘When did I get fat?’ ”How did I get fat? Tens of thousands of thoughts raced through my head in just one second. . . . Then, I looked at the hamburgers and fries on the table in the church cafeteria  with dazed looks as if I had been hit on the head. . . . Only one second ago, I would have gobbled it up, thinking,  “Oooh, free food! Looks so yummy!” But in that one second, it seemed like my brain had turned upside down. . When the youth pastor saw that I was still standing,  she pulled the hamburger and fries in front of me, telling me to sit down and eat. . . . I reluctantly sat down, peeled the paper off the hamburger, and grabbed it with both hands. . . . As I held the burger in my hands, my thoughts moved at super speed,  like numbers in the Matrix movie. . 'Isn't this going to make me fat more?’ “ But I'm hungry….., Should I just eat half of it? “ Will ...

 In the blink of an eye, I looked at the empty bag of Doritos chips in my hand and thought,  “Eh? I finished it already?” Without much thought, I crumpled the bag and threw it in the trash can. . . . I got hungry within a few minutes, so I made myself some spicy instant ramen noodles  and finished with half a bowl of white rice.  Soon after, I brushed my teeth as it was time for bed and went to sleep. . . . During my high school years, I didn't eat anything all day at school. I didn't have any friends to sit and eat with,  and I feared what might happen to me sitting alone in the cafeteria,  which was loud and full of unstable high school energy. . I didn't realize I was hungry when I was in classes,  but when I got home from school,  I would feel a sudden rush of hunger as the tension would dissipate. . . . Since I came home starving after school every day,  my grandmother always prepared dishes for me to eat when I got home. . . ....

My bulimia began in my first year of high school.  . . . Ever since I was little, I've always been a normal-weight, slightly skinny girl.  That's why I've never experienced the stress of having to lose fat.  Thinking back, I barely ate anything when I was in elementary school,  and my parents were always worried about my skin and bone body.  I even went to the emergency room for intestinal malrotation (bowel twisting)  from starving for so long.  . . . As I continued to have an almost non-existent appetite, my parents started taking me to the swimming pool 2 to 3 days a week consistently.  After an hour or two of swimming weekly, I gradually began to have an appetite.  Although I ate significantly more than before, I didn't gain weight because I had been swimming consistently. . . . I am not sure if my body posture improved with swimming, but I had heard a lot of people around that time compliment my body figure. But one day, when I was in my...

So did I. My day was so intense every day. As soon as I opened my eyes in the morning, obsession and fear appeared in my mind. On days when I lie in bed after binge-eating until late at night, I’d think,  'I hope I don't wake up tomorrow.' Yes, there were times when I had these scary thoughts. . . . And when I opened my eyes the next day, all kinds of negative thoughts and emotions  swirled around me like a storm. 'Are you an animal?' 'You are a pathetic person with no self-control...' 'I, a petty person, always give in to my instincts like a slave...' ‘If I fast for three days starting today, I can undo all those calories.’ Once again, I make a promise I cannot keep and endure another day. . . . The day after I binge-ate, while getting ready for work, I saw myself all puffed up in the mirror. 'How can I cover up the traces of my binge eating with my clothes?' I’d think. After trying on different clothes, I put on the ...

  What dominates your brain all day? . . . Does your day look like this? ☆ Did I eat too much of those strawberries? ☆ How many grams of sugar did they have? ☆ How many servings did I just have? ☆ Should I skip dinner today to make up for those calories I just ate for lunch?  . . And when was the last time you asked yourself these questions? ☆ What do I want to eat for lunch today? ☆ What meals bring satisfaction to both my mind and body? . . . Today, almost every food has a nutrition label attached to it.  And yes, these labels were meant to inform us about nutritional values, but ironically,  they became food police officers imprisoning us to the strict food regulations. . . . They take away our freedom. ☆ Freedom to choose to eat what we really want ☆ Freedom to choose to eat how much we really want ☆ Freedom to choose to eat when we really want . . They take away our connection with our bodies. ☆ Our connection to listen for when w...